In 1 Thessalonians, Paul addresses the church saying, “Just as a nursing mother cares for her children, so we cared for you. Because we loved you so much, we were delighted to share with you not only the gospel of God but our lives as well,” and then, “you know that we dealt with each of you as a father deals with his own children, encouraging, comforting and urging you to live lives worthy of God, who calls you into his kingdom and glory.” His role as pastor is much like that of a parent, characterised by tenderness, compassion, and encouragement.

These words were echoing in my ears for the past few weeks as we approached the second birthday of Greenleaf Vineyard Church. I may not be a parent yet in the sense that our bun is still baking for another two months, but Angela and I have always said that Greenleaf is like our first child. I’m going to take the “like” out of that sentence, if I may. Our real son, and any future children, will certainly take priority over the church, but as I look back over these past two years I can’t help but feeling like a proud father.

I love this church. And by that I mean the people. The amazing things that God has done in us. The compassion that God has extended through us to our community. The excitement that comes with each little growth spurt.

So, as a proud father reflecting back over the past two years, here are a few memories, musings, and encouragements to my two-year-old:

You’ve grown…you’re not just a baby any more! What began as 3 committed people meeting on a weekly basis is now approaching 30. While the growth may seem slow at times, not evident on a day-to-day basis, looking back I am amazed–and more so with each new addition to our family. Every time I see one of you welcome a newcomer with a warm smile and an invitation to dinner I smile…whether you see me or not.

You’re starting to walk on your own. In ways that Angela and I used to have to do just about everything for you, you’re now starting to take care of yourself. You’re longing to connect with the world on your own–to experience God and to see him at work around you. You’re stepping out (even if nervously at times!) and believing that God really does have you here for a reason. And I believe that is true for each one of you: your being here was no accident! This church is growing in size and in purpose because of your involvement and partnership.

Your first words. I remember the days when the conversation was very one-sided. Angela and I felt like we had to be involved in almost every conversation or none would happen at all. Then I remember the night that I just stood back and watched you go: all kinds of conversation, relationship, and laughter happening naturally and with out me. You’ve truly loved and embraced one another. You used to be strangers, but now you’re forming life-long bonds and memories that will last well beyond today.

You’re good at sharing. You all give financially better than just about any small church I’ve ever heard of. And you do it even when it hurts. You sacrifice. And not only financially, but you also sacrifice your calendar and your sweat. You love and serve this community with all your heart! And you give generously and lovingly to each other. It’s beautiful. As I watch you grow I can see the heart of Jesus in you: You’re not here to be served, but to serve.

You’re developing your own personality. There is no one else like you! Not here in this city, nor anywhere else. You are special…quirks and all! And, as biased as I may be, I think you’re absolutely the best.

As Paul goes on to say to the Thessalonians, “For what is our hope, our joy, or the crown in which we will glory in the presence of our Lord Jesus when he comes? Is it not you? Indeed, you are our glory and joy.”

I say that to you, Greenleaf. You are our glory and joy. Happy Birthday.

~Rodger & Angela

Filed under: News on September 20th, 2009